I think it's time to look for another job. No excuses get a new one. You are very close to wrecking your marriage hurting your husband and more importantly your kids. Things won't be the same if your marriage survives an affair and it will affect your kids. You are describing lust not love so I'm sure you can get over it especially if you leave that job. I know it will be hard to get out of it since you work for family but try

Please, RUN...You will feel guilty afterall and miserable. Maybe because you have to see him everyday, you have fantasies with him. I give you some suggestion. When you make love with your husband, close your eyes and think about him....it's not fair, but better than cheat with your brother in law, it's a sin, baby....

Run don't destroyed your family because then you're going to regret the rest of your life for been attracted to someone prohibited don't be selfish just get and other job and eventually you're going to forget about it ,I hope you make the right decision good look

Let me tell you that I have exactly the same feeling, the only difference is that I see my brother in law every couple of years.  I do have to add that I do not trust what could happen if I am alone with that man in the same room for more than a couple of minutes.  When we first got married I used to tell my husband that I wanted a threesome with his brother and at first he was OK, but then it started to bother him so I stopped asking.  Up to this point, if my husband would agree I would go ahead and do it, but I do respect my husband and no matter how much I can fantasize about his brother I would not do that to my husband.  With that said, I do avoid his brother when I visit his family.  The difference is I know his brother is attracted sexually to me.  And it is not more than that, it is that animal desire that probably has to dowith chemistry, but that is it.  I think of all the consecuences that it will have and can't do it.  I can still fantasize all I want, after all my husband looks better and it's a better man too.  It's just that some people's pheromones have more effect on us.

I am very, very open minded and pro-everything, but my best advise is that you look for a job someplace else, or try not to have any time alone with him.  Avoid any kind of situation where you would be tempted because you will regret it.  I think you know you married somebody who is right for you, and you should not ruin that just for a moment of passion that will satisfy only your curiosity.  

Hi....well in my opinion i just can tell to foget about it i tink that the best ting to do is lock for another job cause if yoy stay there youre gonna regrated cause how you said no one has to knowit no noone hasto be hust but dont be so shure cause a know that one day some way or another its gonna come out to the light and not one or two but youre all youre beloved family are gonna be hurt so bad and youre gonna say why , why i lost everthing for nothing believe me my experiense is talking to you just live happy and change youre job and youre gonna be ok and best FAMILY4EVER..god bless you an yoyre fam from a friend ..wish you the best...

Thats normal..and i went through that stage in my life..i wont lie...it is because the inexpierence we had, being with one man and never exploring before settling..but, if u want to keep peace and keep both marriages and brotherhood intact...dont do anything with that man..if ur gona stray(which i highly and strongly advise against) do it with someone else..but, i would talk to ur hubby about maybe exploring together..seee what he thinks..but stay away from close friends and family...

The best thing to do is to put distance and the time between you and him..it will help alot..stay away from him! you will not only lose your husband but maybe your kids, you would be the bad one of the story.. you would be the only one hurting yourself..your kids, your marriage and people that are friends to both of you..

NO offense but it doesnt take a genius to figure this one out! From the sounds of it u also kno the answer stop, being a hootchie! Imagine if the tables were turned and ur hubby was fantasizing about ur sister~creepy right! Get it togther in the nicest way possible

Agree 100%

Quoting MrsDianaB:

I think it's time to look for another job. No excuses get a new one. You are very close to wrecking your marriage hurting your husband and more importantly your kids. Things won't be the same if your marriage survives an affair and it will affect your kids. You are describing lust not love so I'm sure you can get over it especially if you leave that job. I know it will be hard to get out of it since you work for family but try

I agree time/distance will do it's work if you walk away.. its the best thing to do...

Quoting Anonymous:

The best thing to do is to put distance and the time between you and him..it will help alot..stay away from him! you will not only lose your husband but maybe your kids, you would be the bad one of the story.. you would be the only one hurting yourself..your kids, your marriage and people that are friends to both of you..