About 2 months ago I had told my husband that I didn't want him to talking to this woman that he knows. And what do I find out. I found out that HE TOLD HER THAT I DIDN'T WANT HIM TO TALK TO HER. I couldn't believe he told her. Why would he tell her what I said? That woman works in the same building my husband works at. She is there about 2-3 times a week. Well today I went to take something to my husband and she was there. I was about to smile and say hello, but she saw me, didn't say anything, and turned around. I don't know what to make of that. I really felt icky about seeing her. I just didn't have a good feeling. Since my husband sells products and she sometimes buys stuff, he obviously has to talk to her. And I had told him before that IF she talks to him to say hello, but to NOT have a conversation with her. I really don't know if he is or isn't. Our relationship is not that great right now, and he is not helping to make it better.
Why not play reverse psychology with him? Instead of telling him not to, sit & ask him what they talk about. See how he responds. If he openly& comfortably tells you what they discuss, then I'd say don't sweat it. If you see & feel he is filtering his words & really rather not share, then I'd zone in & get to the bottom of it.
