Some of us are willing to go the distance to fulfill our men's fantasies, impress and satisfy them. I'm one of them. If my husband sees something that he really likes, if it's workable or doable for me, I'll be down to do it or give it a try. Except sometimes he wants his fantasies to remain as HIS FANTASIES.
When we first met, I had chopped off my hair and he loved it but since then I've been letting my hair grow out. Well not too long ago, Shakira came out with a video with her having short hair and she looked beautiful. Well my hubby seems to agree. So I said well I want to get my hair cut like hers and he said NO WAY....LOL. He wants to see me with my long hair because he finds it hot but he also loves her hair short and doesn't want me to become that little fantasy (make sense?). Very understandable to me.
I mean, I get it. I find Victor Manuelle to be extremely sexy and I wouldn't be excited if my hubby came home with the same goatee and hairstyle.
This is her hair. Isn't she gorgeous???
My question to you is does your partner prefer you one way but has his own little fantasies another way? (I think this will be easy....lol) Any examples?
*Natalie*
I am not sure. My husbands fanatasy woman is Halle Berry and me being bisexual, she is also my fantasy woman though I don't think my husband would look good dressed like her LOL! I don't try to copy her look or anything.
I will also say that I don't care for Shakira's looks anymore. I liked her before she crossed over to the singing in English when her hair was dark red and she sang latin rock type songs
My simple answer is, it is your hair, it is your body, it is you. If you like the hair and want to change it, it's your decission. My husband loves blonde girls. I will never go blonde for him. He also like Shakira's haircut, and let's face it, what man won't, she looks like a stripper any ways.
My DH says his fantasy, is a dark haired Latina woman. LOL I can't help but to be that. I would never lighten my hair.
Sometimes he will make comments if I go to cut my hair. He prefers long hair, so if I cut my hair above my shoulders, he gets a little upset. But, if I want to cut my hair, I will.
well im lucky i guess, when i met my hubby 5 years ago and still now, he say i am his kind of fantasy woman, with long curly black jet hair, cinammon dark skin, not being too dark, the shape of big lips, and my eyes, lol but we both have other kind of fantasies,ha ha humm.. mine is always being a very tall black man with arm full of muscles, and he is 6'4 and black, if he will have another ideal of women, it will be fine with me, but i will never change mi image just to pleased him , he choose me the way i look, so he stuck with me and my look, if i change my look is because make me happy first then him
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