Im pissed! Tell me Ladies, am I overreactting??
I have never had a problem with it, it has never bothered me. I have NEVER stopped him from going. He works hard to take care of us, and I think he deserves his "guy time".
Well the last 2 years he started taking our 2 oldest boys with him. Some of his friends take their kids too. Again, I don't have an issue, I tghink its nice, and my boys love it.
This year I have a problem with the trip, for the first time EVER, the Hubby and I have be fighting.
It all started a couple of weeks ago, because my brother in law, who is 22, started putting an invitation all over his fb, for all his friends to go meet them to party.
Now, I know the guys drink, it doesn't bother me. My DH isn't a drinker, and when the guys drink its usually just a chill type of thing. But, by my BIL inviting all his little friends, means its not just gonna be a "chill" trip. Its gonna turn into a full on party. I trust my DH being there. But, for a bunch of 20 year olds getting drunk and stupid around my kids, THAT I do have a problem with. So, I told him the boys can't go, and now we have been fighting non stop.
Its turned into, oh I don't trust him, and I should know the kids are gonna be fine, and blah, blah, blah. I told him, tell your brother stop turning it into a blow out, and the boys can go. He said, his brothers an adult and he can't tell him what to do. Well then, MY BOYS CAN'T GO!
So, not only are DH and I not getting along, but my boys are upset with me too. I ruined their trip, ect. I feel bad, but am I wrong here?? Why am I the bad guy? Ugh!!!
So, Ladies what do you think? Be honest, I can take it. If I'm wrong and overreactting, I want to know.