Our basic belief system is the same. Big issues we always agree on. Ocassionally we will disagree on the smaller day to day stuff. We just sit down and talk it out. It doesnt always work out and we have to come to a compromise. Either way, we both want what is best for our children so we try to keep that in mind.
My husband and I agreed that we will spank our child. But we disagree on when. At 2, I feel she's too young to understand. Experts recommend you use timouts and such when your child is three. So, I don't really want to spank my daughter if she doesn't know yet, why she's being spanked. My husband disagrees and says we should start now.
we use to get into big arguments becuz i didnt like it when he would discipline him , to me i thought he was to harsh on our son , but i started to see that my son would listen to his dad & not me , so now i dont give in anymore ...we're on the same page .